Children will act out from time to time. There can be times when they may scream in protest, disobey rules, or get cranky. While most of these behaviors can be expected, persistent patterns of concerning behavior tend to require a closer look. Understanding the underlying reasons for these behaviors can be helpful in finding solutions.

What’s Behind “Misbehavior”?

Frustrating behaviors like tantrums, whining and bedtime complaints can be overwhelming for anyone to manage. Understanding what might be behind these types of behaviors can help you to take a more proactive role. When you are able to identify a motive, you are better able to find strategies to manage behaviors and meet needs effectively. Without knowledge of the reasons for misbehavior, you may feel like you are at your wits end finding understanding or solutions.

Children aren’t generally out to get us when they misbehave, though it certainly may feel that way. Your child may be tired, hungry, sleepy, or even feel inadequate. Maybe your child wants to be in control or is retaliating after being reprimanded. Often, there are explainable reasons for misbehavior. Finding out why may help you to meet their specific needs or appropriately address the situation.

Paying Attention to the Signs

Most symptoms of behavioral issues in children are apparent, but there are some that are less obvious. This partial list includes some red flags of behavioral problems.

• aggressive and intimidating behavior
• frequent temper tantrums
• impulsive actions
• lack of attention
• low self-esteem
• defiance to authorities
• self-harming tendency or preference for risky activities
• Vindictiveness

Without help, behavioral disorders in childhood can grow to present concerning challenges in adulthood. As a parent, you may be the first to notice any changes in your child’s behavior. If you see that your child is exhibiting concerning symptoms or behaviors, intervening on his or her behalf at the earliest possible time may be best. Seeking professional help may be necessary, especially when you notice that their behaviors are developing into a chronic pattern.

Finding Behavioral Treatment for Your Child

Child behavioral issues are one of the most common psychological health conditions in childhood. You are not alone. You may be left feeling helpless, but help is available.

A call to Carolina Counseling Services, with two convenient locations in Southern Pines and Pinehurst, NC will start your child on the road to healing. One of the independently contracted counselors can provide the most appropriate treatment approach to meet your child’s unique needs. Call today and schedule your first appointment.

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